how they think and work.

2011-02-14T00:41:00.000+01:00

What you should know about the ladys : how they think and work.

No.10 Make a magnetic first impression

The fact is, most guys destroy any chance of having women pursue them by screwing things up from the start. The moment most men meet a woman, they hem and haw, acting nervous and insecure, which is a total attraction killer. On the other hand, once a man masters his Inner Game to the point where he can approach any woman any time and come across as totally confident and secure right off the bat, then he becomes instantly magnetic to women. Now he can sit back and watch them come to him.

No.9 Be a challenge

Listen, any guy that women perceive as desperate, needy and eager to please already has one foot in the Wuss grave. Women never feel attraction for a Wuss, let alone chase him. But come across as powerful -- as a guy who has a lot going on in his life and couldn’t care less if he gets her -- and you’re on the fast track to drawing women to you instead of having to do all the work. In other words, be a challenge.

No.8 Ask the right questions

Once a woman thinks of you in a particular way, she's likely to keep thinking of you in that way. So start out acting like a Wuss, and guess what -- she assumes you will always act like one, and you're done. That’s why it’s critical to avoid the impulse to ask the standard Wussy questions right up front, like “So, what kind of guys do you like?” or “So, am I your type?” Worst of all is, “Do you have a boyfriend?” Please. Don’t do it

No.7 Don't linger

They say absence makes the heart grow fonder. Well, guess what -- nothing could be truer for women. If you hang around all the time or don’t wait long enough to call a woman back, there's no anticipation. When there’s no anticipation, there’s no motivation -- no driving force -- to make a woman come after you. Plus, lingering says all the wrong things to a woman who’s starting to feel it for you. It makes you look desperate. But make yourself scarce, and you’ll leave her wanting more -- and trying to get it.

No.6 Pay attention the right way

Newsflash: Women love it when guys pay attention to them. But it’s the anticipation of receiving attention that drives them crazy. So stop buying her flashy gifts and dropping obvious compliments. Instead, tell her you were thinking of her today or tell her you had a dream about her last night. In other words, let her know she’s in your thoughts when she's not around. She’ll become addicted to hearing more.

No.5 Get inside her head

To make women chase you, you need to make women think about you instead of the other way around. One way to make that happen easily is this: Decline or ignore any first advances or invitations you receive from a woman. Even better, make yourself look busy and in demand. Tell her, “Oh, you want to hang out on Friday? Geez, I don't know. I have this other thing going on, and I don’t know if she’ll let me out of it.”

Do this right, and she won’t be able to stop thinking about you

No.4 Test her

This step is crucial. To get women to chase you, you have to turn the tables. That means making women qualify themselves to you. In other words, take power in the situation by framing yourself as the selector. It can be as simple as asking, “What makes you more interesting than other girls I’ve dated?” Or, “What are three things a guy would like about you, and please don't say 'looks.'” Do this in a sarcastic, joking way, and women will be drawn into the conversation, guaranteed.

No.3 Master Cocky & Funny

This one’s basic. I tell men all the time that humor is the fastest path to success with women, and it holds true for scientific reasons. Fact is, making a woman laugh when you meet her is the most powerful way to make her keep thinking about you and want to spend more time with you. So make a woman laugh, and no matter how unattainable she seems, she’ll be biologically drawn to you because of the positive feelings you create in her -- feelings she just can't ignore.

No.2 Hold on to your cards

I love this tip because it’s the simplest way to get women to do all the work. Basically, when you first meet a woman, don’t be an open book. You can do this by simply not introducing yourself until she asks your name or by using the power of “maybe.” Tell her, “Listen, I have to get back to my friends, but maybe I'll see you later.”

Bottom line: Suspense and mystery are foolproof ways of creating attraction. Making those feelings of attraction so strong that she can’t resist them is the best way to get her to chase you.

No.1 Stop doing the chasing

Duh, right? If you’re constantly hitting on everything that moves -- throwing out stale pickup lines and nervous chatter -- then you’ll never master the skills needed to truly get women to chase you. And, by the way, know why they call it “hitting” on a woman? Because most of the time it’s just plain painful for her. So the first step is to stop doing it, period. Only then can you stop following women around like a love-sick puppy -- like every other guy is doing -- and start building the mystery and tension that attracts them.

Lets get Started

2011-01-30T19:22:00.000+01:00

Dont hate on my spelling :) its normally German

Well,
My name is Bryan. Let me start off by saying it doesnt matter where in the wolrd you are, people who hear the name Bryan will always think Oh an American. But my last name is German.

When i was young i came to States from germany. It was hard to fit in with the kids but, i made it. and i must say i made freiends for life, but thats not my proplem. no My problem is being to nice, Honest, Forgiving and being to Loyal. This is all about to change as of today Sunday 30th of Jan. 2011.

Let me just give 1 Senario of about 200
I used to be so nice and always tryed to find the good in people, but just got screwd over many times by my Emotions. (fuck those things)

I met this Girl (lets call her Amy) in my 8th grade Class, we looked at eachother and we both knew there was somthing there not one of us could discribe. In the 8th Grade we where the best friends.! I even dated 1 of her Freinds for a period of 4 months wich was long for a 8th grade.Then there was High school oh ya Highschool. Well i had broken up with the girl in 8th grade but we dated for a month in High school. Now this Girl (Amy) in high school i went to Homecoming wiht her and asked her to be my Girl friend. we went to Homecoming and she was my girl friend. But then things where shiity (( Bryan do this do that...no you cant hang out with your friends hang out with me )) and she was just more of the cheating type, but like i said i kind loved her. any way this was freshman year and she left the school softmore year and came back in the Junior year. in that one year she had changed and was into drungs and whatnot.
ANYWAY
I dates this girl(AMY) in high school for 3 years off and on and then one day she just broke up with me. It wasnt bad as i though it would be. it was easy getting over somthing like that. seeing how i was now out with my boys again. but what came next was crazy. After about 4 months she had a new Boyfriend and whatever . Long story short she was 2 weeks pregent after being with this guy for 4 months wich is like ok...
.Point is..i wasted my 3 years and lost a friend.
NOTE: She was Hudge at Graduation,

just One exampl
Seems like i always end up with a Shit chick.

Thats why i moved to Switzerland after High school. yes Switzerland the ALPS. I now Attend a university there. the best thing ive ever done was getting out of that old life.

Now ive lived here In switzerland for 1 year now and ive had 1 girl friend of (3weeks) and had sex with 6 women (repeats not countetd not 6 times). now i liked this girl i dated for 3 weeks but she told me after 3 weeks Bryan i like you alot but i dont love you. SIDENOTE it would have been crazy loving me after 3 weeks.. anyway she still wants to hang out and stuff but i could care less.

I go to a therapist because the university said i was dealing with a Cultur schook wenn i moved here.
((((Im not the only one of the university students who have to attend this therapist..)))
so as of today i will be a different person.
So Im going to tell you what im going to say to women who i meet and who want any kind of Relationship
:Dont come around here for love
Cuz at the end of the day we die alone anyway.

So this is my "intro" to my Blog I will Try and write updates everyday
that means Pictures, Conversations, Details, things ive Noticed. i Will also be trying to date someone and see if the Relation ship will turn into a relation SHIt.

Sunday Jan 30th. 2011 Switzerland , maybe i will tell you guys where i am later on. who knows.

My life